Our family likes to get outside,
and we on some days go quite a long way from home. Sometimes though, all we need
is our own back garden, our patch of the earth we call home, an environment
teeming with life and hidden treasures waiting to reveal themselves to us, just
here and now.
So, we open the back door and go
out into the blue morning air. My son races ahead to rediscover what he sees
each day and I take a moment, to pause, to breathe and contemplate that which I
could never have guessed before I was a
mother, that this sense of being
home in my own space was the kind of feeling I was longing for. On his way, my son’s senses discover sage,
rosemary and mint, the texture of the leaves, the feeling of chlorophyll in
action ~ the sequence isn’t important; he just likes touching the herbs and
smelling his fingers.
Down the garden path we go, with
the fire of the sun above us. This is a lucky day and our washing dances in the
breeze too. We have been known to walk out into the blue heart of a rain
shower, but luckily not today.
Glancing across the garden fences
I see my neighbour’s washing flying too and I am reminded that there are many
of us walking out under the sun’s ancient flame, to hang our clothes to dry and
to discover what our children can show us in the vicinity of our immediate
landscape
With my daughter riding on my
back, I follow my son’s trail, down to the garden shed, where we need to
discover some of tools to help us today. We need to cut our grass as it
resembles a meadow, although I am not always sure why this is a problem as the
insects seem to like it. We take out the lawnmower and my child, desperate to
have a go but unable to do so races back into the house and returns with a
wheeled toy horse who will be his lawn mower.
Back and forth, back and forth we
go, moving the bird table, rediscovering some toys we thought we lost long ago
that have be lying in wait, lurking in our long grass. Muffin the horse makes
light work of the job and soon our noses are filled with the wonderfully green
smell of summertime; freshly cut grass.
We pause before doing the edges
and my son is attracted by something. He has found a snail. Marvelling in the
wonder of seeing a being who carries his home around with him, the snail, small
on a small hand is brought for inspection. We consider snails, where they might
live if they can move their house wherever they go, and, where we think this
one is going. It seems purposeful, so we decide to release it back to the
ground and to monitor progress.
Our snail is on a mission, it
slides with surprising speed up past the irises and the primroses I was given
from a family garden, on to where the geraniums have gone wild in a way that
has made bees fall in love with the space this year. Watching and following we
find our place in the garden, our balance and sense of relationship to all the
living beings; we are no longer visitors, we are a part of the landscape. At a snail’s
pace we find that our snail’s wish is to leave our garden and climb the wooden
mountains that are our neighbour’s fence; the boundaries that keep us separate
in our own private parts of suburbia.
My son talks with excitement
about what the snail might be doing and then, on his own trajectory wanders on
to other things too.
My daughter and I have retraced
our path to the back door, where our journey for the day takes us back inside
the house. The wind is in her house of clouds and white banners above move with
our clothes on the line below; there’s no hint of rain, somewhere in the garden
my son plays and the snail moves on ~ all is well.
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